Choice – HD Clarity

Breaking the Cycle: Embracing Change in Triggering Moments and Conversations

by KimNovember 15, 2023November 15, 2023

From Volume 16, Issue 1: It takes two to tango! If “here we go again” describes conflicts with folks close to you, you can take charge of fixing that!

In the tapestry of our daily lives, we often find ourselves caught in the intricate weave of Knower/Judger-patterned behaviors. These behaviors, while providing comfort and familiarity, can also limit our growth and potential for change. Trigger-events and conversations tend to be the loom on which these patterns are woven, but they also offer a unique opportunity for us to break free from these cycles and embrace something different.

Moment of Clarity, March 2022, When that ol’ easy chair stands in the way.

by KimMarch 23, 2022March 23, 2022

The nature of happy

by KimJuly 21, 2021July 21, 2021

From Volume 14, Issue 7:What does it mean to be happy?

The new, new, new normal

by KimDecember 17, 2020

From Volume 13, Issue 12:I hear a lot lately about the “new normal.” This medical crisis that has enveloped the world has caused almost everybody to alter their modus operandi.

Try Something Different

by KimFebruary 19, 2020February 14, 2020

From Volume 13, Issue 1:I believe we are all habitual beings. That is to say that we pretty much do the same thing in response to things that happen in our lives over and over again.

I’ve decided I want to be happy.

by KimJanuary 22, 2020January 22, 2020

From Volume 13, Issue 1:I now realize that being angry, frustrated, sad, guilty, afraid, scared, annoyed, disappointed, discouraged, apathetic—the laundry list goes on—simply has not been good for my well-being. It can make me lash out at those who may or may not be responsible for these feelings. Generally it makes me very unapproachable… people walk wide circles around me.

Perception and Reality

by KimOctober 16, 2019October 16, 2019

From Volume 12, Issue 10:Pure science, it is said, is always looking for errors in its interpretations.
When I was a youngster, Pluto was a planet, and the atom was the smallest particle.
In the 15th century, the Earth was both flat and the center of the universe.

Moment of Clarity, April 2019, ….Not in Kansas anymore…..

by KimApril 17, 2019April 17, 2019

Savor the moment

by KimDecember 19, 2018December 19, 2018

From Volume 12, Issue 1: “Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” This quote, oft used by productivity guru and Seven Habits author Steven Covey, are actually the words of Viktor Frankl.

What does work–life balance mean?

by KimJuly 19, 2017June 30, 2021

In recent weeks the theme of work–life balance has popped up in my conversations a little more than normal. Perhaps it’s an indication that people …