May 30, 2024

Love-Hate 101

From Volume 16, Issue 1: While the concepts of love and hate are supposed opposites, yet mean what they mean to each of us, I’m thinking common ground is needed to reconcile the two and bring internal comfort. It may help us to understand why love and hate are two sides of the same coin, so to speak. Or why love and hate actually live along the same continuum.

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Breaking the Cycle: Embracing Change in Triggering Moments and Conversations

From Volume 16, Issue 1: It takes two to tango! If “here we go again” describes conflicts with folks close to you, you can take charge of fixing that!

In the tapestry of our daily lives, we often find ourselves caught in the intricate weave of Knower/Judger-patterned behaviors. These behaviors, while providing comfort and familiarity, can also limit our growth and potential for change. Trigger-events and conversations tend to be the loom on which these patterns are woven, but they also offer a unique opportunity for us to break free from these cycles and embrace something different.

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Clarity (After all, the title of this monthly missive is HDClarity!)

From Volume 12, Issue 3:When I sought out a standard definition of “clarity” or “clear,” I found synonyms like “coherent,” “intelligible,” “transparent,” and “pure.” Pretty understandable, right?

I suppose these synonyms work for a good general explanation of what clear means. But, I actually find them a little… unclear.

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