HD Clarity: Volume 3, Issue 5 – May 2010

We can no longer fathom watching standard definition TV broadcasts. We HAVE to view our sporting events, National Geographic programming and late night comedy in HD — High Definition.

HDClarity is an e-zine for those wanting to develop more trust, understanding and camaraderie in their work environment, and their life in general. A smoother running team is a more profitable team. They get things done faster, for less cost. If you’d like to discover methods for developing High Definition Clarity in your daily life, please read on.


“If only you could sense how important you are to the lives of those you meet; how important you can be to people you may never even dream of. There is something of yourself that you leave at every meeting with another person. ”
– Fred Rogers


Eckhart Tolle’s Three Responses and an Unbelievable Race

Christopher Duplessis is probably the best two-wheel-drive rally car driver in the U.S. In a world of 300-horsepower, rock-star-driven, all-wheel-drive Subarus, Mitsubishis, and Ford Fiestas, Chris normally manhandles a 130-hp front-wheel drive 1990 Volkswagen Golf to 2WD championships year after year. I had the privilege of co-driving for Chris in Colorado for the rally that wrapped up his 2008 Championship.

Chris is the original “can-do” guy. As a result, he’s always winning-even when he doesn’t. What am I talking about? First, I need to explain Eckhart Tolle’s Three Responses.

Three Responses

In his work, Tolle refers to the Three Modalities of Awakened Doing. What he means is that, no matter what you do, a successful connection to an event requires acceptance, enjoyment, or enthusiasm. If you’re engaged in any other way, you’re not going to be happy with the results.

Many of us are engaged in other states during a task or event. These include:

  • Anger
  • Frustration
  • Duty
  • Shame
  • Fear
  • Retaliation

These modes of engagement are derived from your Knower/Judger persona. In these modes, you are comparing what’s going on with some past rule or experience and finding the situation “needing adjustment.” You end up saying things like: “I’m angry because you didn’t follow through.” “I’m frustrated because the tire went flat.” “I have to finish college because my father says so.” “The toilet paper comes off the roll wrong!”

Sure, it’s difficult to get enthusiastic about that flat tire. But throwing the jack in frustration is usually not productive. According to Tolle, “Performing an action in the state of acceptance means you are at peace while you do it.”

Chris’s Gift

Chris and Ron and the 0-60 Scion (Click for Video)

Chris was tapped by 0-60 Magazine to pilot a 2010 Scion XD sedan that was hurriedly prepped for running the Oregon Trail Rally. By prepped, I mean a roll cage had been installed, and some pretty awesome Tein suspension was bolted underneath. Other than that, it was pretty much off the shelf, putting Chris at a huge perceived disadvantage.

Although the car was paid for by somebody else, it had low power, an open differential (only one wheel pulling), and was not particularly light. Plus there were lots of uphill racing sections on the course and Chris had a novice co-driver.

Other drivers would have looked at this opportunity (any paid ride is an opportunity) but found fault with the car, the differential, the lack of power, the hurried preparation, the inexperienced co-driver and crew. They would have known they weren’t going to win.

In contrast, Chris spent most of the weekend in unbridled enthusiastic engagement, laughing as he snapped the front bumper loose in a high-speed water crossing, smiling as a rock punctured the floor pan, not lifting the throttle corner after corner, blind crest after blind crest, totally committed to the project, even though this car was not supposed to be a competitive rally car.

Chris didn’t win. He came in second to a turbo-charged fully sorted out Ford Focus. But his 2010 Championship season is still intact with only two events to go. And 0-60, Scion, and Tein got their money’s worth from Chris Duplessis because he doesn’t know how to respond to anything in a manner inconsistent with Tolle’s Three Responses. He chooses to respond with acceptance, enjoyment, or enthusiasm. And usually, he chooses all three.

Are you getting your money’s worth out of you? Your people? Your relationships? If not, perhaps you’re not responding to situations in the best way.

Next time you’re faced with an issue that’s about to set you off, weigh the value of satisfying your emotional issues-throwing your jack, yelling at your direct report-against the overall success of the mission. Would one of the Three Responses serve you better?

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