Corporate CoDriver: Why do any of us have to buy into this crap?
by This past weekend, I went out to Southern California to co-drive for an old friend at the Gorman Ridge Rally. Nothing unusual about this race …
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Corporate CoDriver: Pass it on.
At a recent coaching session with a very talented IT client of mine (we’ll call her Marsha) she recounted a story to me about a particularly contentious negotiating (well, actually fault-finding) conversation she facilitated between a client of hers and her client’s client.
Moment of Clarity, August 2011: My Dad’s Three Rules of Life
Most of you are familiar with my position that we operate in life through the Knower/Judger rules and traditions gifted or cursed to us by our parents.
Robert Kiyosaki’s Rich Dad Poor Dad concept also works for Happy Dad, Sad Dad; Aggressive Dad, Passive Dad; Persecutor Dad, Victim Dad, etc. We grow up mirroring the environment that surrounds us.
You Know the Type, but Do You Really?
From Volume 4 Issue 8We only have one opportunity to make a first impression, and sometimes we don’t even get that opportunity. Almost universally, we make judgments about people as soon as we meet them. Tall, short. Fat, skinny. Attractive, unattractive. Cool, uncool. Rich, poor. My kind, not my kind. Are the judgments you’re making getting in the way of your success?
Corporate CoDriver: Ships Passing in the Night
Friday I had a very busy day. I worked out (as I try to do on a daily basis, but sometimes my Knower/Judger rules against …
Managing uncomfortable processes…thrive or struggle. WANT is the answer.
I met one morning this week with a coaching client who is working very hard on managing the processes that will yield the results he …
Corporate CoDriver: People Don’t Leave Companies….
Corporate CoDriver: What’s the greatest cause of frustration? Expectations!
I was with clients this past weekend in a workshop setting. And a point was made by the presenter that sometimes in order to get …
Corporate CoDriver: The Positive Power of NO
“NO” defines us…where we set the limits of how far we will go, how much pain we’ll endure, or how much we will spend….eventually we …
Corporate CoDriver: How to have your ‘help’ accepted.
When we were kids, our parents helped us with a million things. Eating. Tying our shoes. Putting on layers of clothing for going outside in the Winter. On top of that most likely they taught us to help others.